tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-50071554578898282862024-03-13T00:33:34.403-07:00Dalam PencarianTowards the betterment of lifeNurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.comBlogger112125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-9505338301735607992020-06-12T18:37:00.000-07:002020-06-12T18:37:25.902-07:00My Braces JourneyTahun 2020, umurku masuk 30 tahun. <div>
Now, kewangan dah better sikit dan kereta pun sudah habis bayar. Niat untuk memperbetulkan gigi makin makin menebal kerana gigi depan aku makin hari mcm makin obvios kedepan. </div>
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Bukanlah malu dengan kejadian Allah, tapi aku rasa keperluan untuk menjaga nikmat Allah bagi ni untuk masa yg lama. Jadi, aku mendapatkan nasihat daripada sebuah Klinik swasta. </div>
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Step pertama, pada 30 Mei 2020</div>
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DrE mengambil acuan dan x-ray kedudukan gigi aku. Dia memberi sedikit nasihat tentang braces bg newbie mcm aku. </div>
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Step Kedua, pada 7 Jun 2020 </div>
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Aku bertemu pakar Orthodontist aku untuk mengetahui harga untuk rawatan dan l setelah dipersetujui, aku dipakaikan terus sejenis getah bagi merenggangkan gigi bagi pemakaian TPA pada minggu seterusnya. </div>
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Kesan pakai getah, aku tak boleh nak makan benda kasar hatta sayur pun selama 3 hari. Bersyukur, masih boleh makan bubur dan juga kuih teow tanpa rasa sakit. Nak makan bihun pun sakit tau. Beauty is pain. So apalah sangat sakit sikit ni. </div>
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Step Ketiga, 13 Jun 2020 </div>
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Proses pemakaian TPA. Masa aku menulis ni, aku belum pakai TPA. Nanti aku akan update selepas rawatan kejap lg. </div>
Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-41721222120464172392020-05-11T20:48:00.002-07:002020-05-11T20:48:33.437-07:00Rawat Masalah rambut Berbuah Dengan CepatAssalamualaikum semua.<br />
Post ini sis tujukan khas kepada yg mempunyai masalah rambut berbuah.<br />
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Sis faham, wanita yg mempunya rambut panjang dan dan sentiasa menutup aurat mungkin mempunyai masalah rambut yg mampu membuatkan seorang wanita tu bertambah stress dan dan akhirnya, memotong rambut sehingga pendek.<br />
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Sis hampir sahaja memotong rambut Rapunzel sis minggu lepas sebab sepanjang PKP, sis suka mandi dan rambut menjadi berbuah sbb rambut x sempat nk kering, sis dh basahkan. Jadi, mak sis cadang guna Akar Sintok sebagai syampu. .<br />
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Ini akar yg sis order dekat Shoppee.. satu tu, boleh dua kali guna.<br />
Cara dia.. rendam akar sintok beberapa jam. Dan waktu nak mandi, basahkan rambut beberapa kali menggunakan air rendaman yg sama. Boleh tambah air jika nak.<br />
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Awas: Jangan sampai kena mata tau. Pedih. Ada kata boleh rabun.<br />
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Kedua, semasa mandi, sikat rambut sehingga puas menggunakan sikat khas untuk cr kutu kepala. Sikat biar rata dan kena semua. Waktu rambut basah dengan akar ni, rambut mudah diurus. Sikat ini bertujuan untuk membuang buah rambut yg ada.<br />
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Selepas itu, mandi macam biasa. Kalau nak rub / tonyoh akar sintok dekat rambut pun boleh. Tapi nampak extrem la.<br />
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Awas: Jangan guna produk lain waktu ini. Fokus guna satu je untuk mengekalkan khasiat pd kulit kepala dan rambut. No need mosturizer for now. <br />
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Seterusnya, siap mandi mcm biasa, sikat lagi rambut ketika basah sikit demi sedikit untuk membuang buah yg ada..<br />
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Part ni, sis buat berulang kali dan sis basuh sikat dalam 5 kali sebab buah rambut terlalu banyak.<br />
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Akhirnya, sis duduk bawah kipas dan sikat rambut sehingga kering. Dibawah adalah. Gambar kali ketiga sikat sis sebelum basuh. <br />
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Jijik ke? Hee. Alhamdulillah. Selepas 5 kali basuh sikat, sis rasa lega sangat.. sis dh boleh buang hampir 90% buah rambut yang ada dalam masa sehari. Sis kurang sabar sebenarnya tu sis sikat banyak kali walaupun dalam percubaan pertama. </div>
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Modal sis beli hanyalah RM 1.50 satu plastik tu. Cari di pasar pun boleh. </div>
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Ok lastly, sis disarankan oleh mak sis utk guna beberapa kali. Ia juga dikatakan boleh membuat rambut kuat dan berkilat secara sihat. . Mak sisnkata nak lambatkan proses beruban pun elok guna akar Beluru/Sintok ni. </div>
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Okay, itu sahaja. </div>
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Kalau sisi rajin, nanti sis bg testimonial selepas seminggu. Kalau sis rajin ya. Sis ni busy orangnya. Menulis byk untuk ngo, page and website. Tu jarang update blog sendiri. Hee. </div>
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Hi Salam PKP uolss.<br />
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I will make this story very short.<br />
Jodoh adalah rahsia Allah kepada kita. Kita berusaha dan Allah jualah yang menyatukan hati-hati kita.<br />
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Sis tak penat mencuba. Cume, semakin meningkat usia, sis menjadi semakin selektif. Tidak semudah itu kita membiarkan orang masuk dalam kehidupan kita. Kita ada privasi yg harus dijaga. Tambah-tambah, ada insan yang hanya sekadar mencuba, bila tidak berkenan, diam seribu bahasa.<br />
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Jika kita niat berkawan, berkawan seadanya. Jika hanya ingin mencari teman yg indah rupa dan bekerjaya, cari sahaja di instagram. You can find a lot. Jangan cari di laman jodoh. Kesian mereka yang tidak punya rupa paras yg menawan tapi serius nak mencari jodoh.<br />
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Kadang kala, kami juga penat nak melayan sikap kamu yang inferior.<br />
Terlalu takut akan pekerjaan kami .<br />
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Bahkan, sikap kamu yg superior pun kami penat nk layan.<br />
Letak kerja sekian-sekian yang diketahui lumayan gajinya. Lepas tu tanya si gadis, kerja swasta ke kerja kerajaan? Dan turn off based on that. Herm. I really trying not to judge people on that. But man, tagunaa betul bila kau tanya soalan tu dengan cara yg tak patut. Sometimes, your question membuatkan ramai wanita fikir;<br />
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Am i going to be the breadwinner of the family?<br />
Am i going to be the imam and guide you to know Islam better?<br />
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Come on la. Don't you know how to be the human first? Kalau you rasa perlukan ustazah untuk betulkan hidup you, pergi cari ustazah tambah ilmu thaqafah. Jangan gatal nak cari jodoh yg cantik, kerja bagus dan juga ustazah at the same time. And later you can keep pakai seluar pendek dan hisap rokok. Jodoh ni, bukan utk u claim ownership on that women only. It is about responsibilitieS.<br />
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This type of taguna yg belum bersedia tapi gatal nak cari pasanganlah yang menyebabkan ramai wanita patah hati, malas nak fikir pasal jodoh sangat tau.<br />
We better think and spend time to educate ourselves and working to achieve our dreams. Bukan kami tolak sunnah utk kahwin ke apa, but because we don't want to spend our precious time on taguna man like you (if you terasa, not all) out there.<br />
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Dalam Baitul Muslim khususnya, please think twice before pm mana-mana orang. Cek dulu profile. Make yourself ready to taaruf first. Jangan sebarangan pm sebab nak tambah koleksi.<br />
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Just my two cent. Last but not least, walaupun ada org nk tolong crkan jodoh untuk kita, jangan sesekali kita terburu-buru dan menggadaikan prinsip kita.<br />
Wanita, you berhak memilih lelaki yang you nak ambil jadi imam you sebagai mana mana mereka punya hak utk memilih, nak ambil you sebagai makmum mereka.<br />
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Be honest, be wise. Be responsible of every step you take in life.<br />
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NHM.<br />
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<br />Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-87154360051563482062018-09-16T18:41:00.000-07:002018-09-19T06:41:51.331-07:00Buatmu Sahabat<br />
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Duhai sahabat, </div>
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Tenanglah..</div>
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Usah terus berduka,</div>
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kerana sesudah hujan pelangikan ada..</div>
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Sahabatku,</div>
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Tenanglah..</div>
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Tukarlah fokusmu..</div>
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Elakkan segala kesedihan..</div>
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Berkongsilah rasa bahagia..</div>
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agar yg datang membuatmu bahagia</div>
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Sahabat,</div>
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Tenanglah..</div>
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Bersangka baiklah kepada Allah dan seisi dunia. </div>
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Semua yg berlaku ada hikmah disebaliknya..</div>
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Ia bukan sekadar kisah duka,.. </div>
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Ia pencetus untukmu,</div>
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agar lebih hebat menguruskan semua,</div>
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menjadi hamba yg lebih dekat dgn Sang Pencipta ❤</div>
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<span style="color: #cc0000;">NHM,</span></div>
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<span style="color: #cc0000;">Buatmu Sahabat</span></div>
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Its hurt me so much. The more I want you, the more you ignore me, that's what I feel. I hope I could end this very soon. But still, everytime I said to my self I want to end this, somehow, things happen. Maybe we felt the same but you doesn't want to admit it? I mean, maybe u want to put an end for this, idk how to call this, I mean, you and me. </div>
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This time around, I really want to take a move. Yes, I want to be responsible to myself n give chance for others to know me. </div>
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In September, if there is nothing happen between us that can make me feel better about you, I will move on. The one month extra should not be wasted anymore. You are the king maker to your life. So am 1 to my life. Lets be an adult n clear about the future. </div>
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If you really want me, it better to be firm. It almost 4 month I wait for better life plan. Resolve what we feel n open to each other. But, the only thing I got is, the feeling of "I am nobody, I feel like unwanted. I'm just merely translator and someone we call acquantaince. Not even a friend"! </div>
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Its ok. It is an experience for me, to miss someone that I never know, I never met. To love a stranger for five month. </div>
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Alhamdulillah, Allah give me the feeling to love a man. I never expected to fall in love with a man like you. </div>
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In Sept, I will delete you mobile number. I promise to myself, I'll stop from visiting you page. I will not stalk. I will let you go from my heart. I will not disturb you in any way, insyaAllah. Maybe what I hate to do is the best for me n you. </div>
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Dear heart, please be strong. You will never get what Allah doesn't want to give. Let go to feel better n give other people chances to know you. </div>
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Huda, you are worth it! Don't messed you life. Sometimes, u can determine you own flow. 🐆</div>
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Segala puji bg Allah tuhan sekelian alam. </div>
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Coretan ini dimulai dengan air mata yg bergenang. </div>
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Rasa berdosa dan rasa keinsafan. Serta rasa penuh kehinaan dan kehambaan. </div>
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Aku kini berada dalam satu fasa yg sangat berat bg hatiku untuk membuat keputusan yg benar-benar adil bg semua yg terlibat. </div>
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Hati nan seketul ini diuji dengan penyakit yg aku mungkin tidak pernah mengalaminya seberat ini.</div>
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Dua insan mendekati dengan niat yg sama namun pendekatan yg berbeza. Awalnya aku meraikan kedua-duanya. </div>
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Dengan menjadi diri sendiri. Sekadar berkongsi maklumat keluarga dan diri. Dengan si A, aku jarang berhubung memandangkan He is to good to be true. Namun, sekali kami berhubung, perbincangan kami tentang realiti, family value, life principle terasa sangat bermakna. We are open and i am open to disagree. Namun, aku cuba meletakkan awal-awal lagi status kami berdua. Cukup sekadar kawan. </div>
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Namun dengan si U, kami seringkali menyapa. Say Hi and hi and hi. Pada awal perhubungan kami, ya, kami sama-sama mengatakan ini adalah usaha untuk membina rumah tangga. Hanya sekali sekala kami menyentuh perihal kerja dan keluarga masing-masing. Perihal diri dan personaliti yg disentuh juga membuahkan natijah yg mana aku boleh katakan, we are so different. But yet, our conversation sepertinya too good and nothing to disagree. </div>
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Segalanya berubah bila kami masing-masing sibuk dan Si U tidak lagi menghantar sebarang pesanan hampir lebih sebulan. Begitu juga si A, kami tidak berhubung kerana aku tidak selesa dengan lelaki yg suka memuji. </div>
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Namun, keinginan untuk mempunyai kawan yg boleh diajak berbincang isu-isu yg mematangkan sangat mendekam dalam jiwaku. </div>
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Sehinggalah aku yg memulakan conversation dgn si A ttg lagu-lagu yg bagus untuk jiwa Rabbani. </div>
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Kami berkongsi lagu-lagu kesukaan. </div>
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the urge inside me burst. I was thinking about him for few days and I can't sleep well. My mind was thinking about him almost 24/7. I was waiting for him to text me. I calming my self, solat Taubat, solat hajat utk menenangkan diri. Aku tambah lg zikir-zikir. </div>
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Sehinggalah aku melihat satu video yg berkisar ttg "reason for fail relationship". I shared to him the vid without any explaination.. </div>
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And he replied to me that he was thinking about me. Really. I really don't know what to say and stay silent. My reply after that was about, how can you miss someone you never met?</div>
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This question is actually a great question to my self. And his answer comfort me so much and I felt so relieved, a bit. I feel like, I fell in love with him, but I keep saying that we are friends. Just friend. </div>
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But, he confidently said I am falling in love with him. He also said that he loves me. All this thing is something that very hard for me to believe. I never confessed my feeling, but.. I with fully concious confessed to him in the form of question and giving hints. </div>
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That night we talk about marriage and he asked me if everything works between us, am I ready to get marry this year. I felt so happy but still confuse with what I felt. I said to him and to me myself need more time. I prayed Istikharah and my feeling to him getting deeper and I feel so calm. </div>
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I prayed Istikharah continuosly for a week. And suddenly Si U texted me and mentioned he wanna meet me one day in May, two months later. I feel nothing except, I feel I don't want to reply. But I replied, let see what will happen next. I gave this answer (replied to U n said let see what will happen next) as i am not certain and 100% confident about A. However, I can't deny my feeling to him getting deeper even our conversation now is short. We both prayed to ask guidance from Allah.</div>
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There are things that made me scared with A. He is expressive about what he feel. Sending me this💚💑💕 and shared with me article about marriage. </div>
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I still feel like he is too good to be true. </div>
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He is too handsome for me i guess. I become inferior but still, i keep my standard when texting with him to jaga my Iman. Our Iman. </div>
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After that, Si U keep liking and looking all my status update as if he cares about me. I feel very bad. But, i gave the opportunity to A already at this moment even though i knew he is to good to be true. And now, i feel so bad when Si U texted me. I don't think I should reply. But i don't have courages to turn him down, for now. </div>
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And for A, we are far in distance and yet, I still angau. Yes, angau. Lovesick. Thinking about him all the time even we did not contact each other everyday. </div>
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I deleted all his pictures that he sent to me to avoid my feeling getting deeper and my angau getting worst. But, he still in my mind and fill my heart. </div>
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At this moment, I pray to Allah to bless this relationship and void us from doing any sinful acts. </div>
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Two weeks period I took to think, rationalize and take some actions. I chose to let him go. I set him free. But, things happen I become more confident and wanting him even more. My thought disagree to my heart, and Allah, the One who own my heart made my feeling deeper dan stronger. To A!</div>
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Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-89616143357124457202018-04-13T04:26:00.000-07:002018-04-13T04:26:00.319-07:00Cinta tidak Haram!Assalamualaikum wbt.<br />
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Jatuh cinta pada seseorang??<br />
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Relaks. Itu lumrah teman-teman. Cool, take time n discover what make you feels so...<br />
Do not rush and tell people that you fell in love with someone.<br />
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Angau/lovesick?<br />
Itupun biasa. Rindu dan teringatkan si dia tu sesuatu yg tidak kita boleh kawal. Namun, yg kita boleh kawal nafsu kita. Jangan sampai membayangkan sesuaru yang haram!<br />
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Dalam fasa ini, mohon petunjuk banyak-banyak dari Allah swt agar kalian dilindungi dari segala fitnah dan ujian. Ingat, tatkala perasaan cinta membuak-buak, syaitan juga berkobar-kobar untuk terus menguji keimanan kita😂.<br />
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Perasaan memang perlu dinyatakan agar ianya jelas. Namun matlamatnya juga harus nyata. Ianya adalah demi membina baitul muslim. Cukup utk menyatakan agar kalian merasa yakin. Bukan utk sekadar bermain cinta dan berkongsi rasa dan kesunyiaan.<br />
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Ingat, fasa bercinta mahupun memulakan sesebuah perhubungan, banyak dugaan. Jangan sampai tersilap langkah. Mohon la doa, istikharah dan musyawarrah dengan keluarga tentang perasaan anda agar doa dan nasihat mereka dapat membantu kita membuat pilihan yg terbaik.<br />
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Apa itu istikharah? Haa.. Yg part ini adik kena ingat betul-betul, ianya adalah solat untuk memohon petunjuk dari Allah tentang sesuatu agar diberikan kebijaksaanaan kepada kita dalam membuat keputusan yg terbaik. Tak kira la dlm isu pendidikan, pekerjaan mahupun soal jodoh.<br />
Namun, istikharah juga memerlukan kita untuk membuat sedikit kajian ttg apa yg kita alami. Contohnya, jika soal jodoh, adik-adik hendaklah membuat background checking ttg insan yg adik suka untuk memastikan dia menepati ciri-ciri yang dikehendaki ataupun tidak. Semak latar belakang dan pergaulannya. Semak apa saja yg adik ingin tahu agar tidak membebankan adik pada masa akan datang. Sekiranya adik boleh menerima kekurangannya, insyaAllah, adik akan kuat dalam menghadapi ujian masa hadapan nanti kerana adik sudah bersedia. Faham?<br />
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So, cinta memerlukan adik memahami konsep berumahtangga. Jangan lupa untuk menambah ilmu dengan membaca buku tentang lelaki dan wanita seperti karya John Grey, fiqh munakahat dan sebagainya. Persiapkan diri seadanya bg menjadi a good partner😎.<br />
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allow both sides to understand where and why things went wrong.</div>
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And move on.</div>
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Sometimes, it's not always about proving a point. Most of the times, it's about two heads with different assumptions and expectations, and all it needs is a big heart and an open mind to accept such differences and find a solution to accommodate them.</div>
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~Silence will kill the relationship slowly and slowly.~</div>
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Medan,Indonesia</div>
Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-35712821012681612017-08-30T09:29:00.001-07:002017-09-20T06:35:24.264-07:00When you choose to start over!Mentally, you need to be tough to live in this running world. Today, we live in the world where people are competing to each other to find pleasure, money, love, properties and many more.<br />
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Some just found happiness and the meaning of life. And lot of people seeking for it.<br />
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Some people drastically take a chance to drastically change, some people don't and refuse.<br />
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Expectation sometimes does not work. We plan but Allah also has plan for us. After two days of my previous post saying that i accepted the offer, I officially turn down the promotion and choose to leave immediately for a lot of reasons.<br />
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No major regret except i pity my colleague to take over everything and lack of support. That's all.<br />
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Yes, i moved on and nearly get a job. But, i didn't grab the opportunity as it also seems like i will not be happy.<br />
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I am choosy?<br />
Yeah. Definitely. I am looking for a career, not simply a job to earn money for living.<br />
And after i turn down the promotion, i got "dumped". Not the right word i guess.<br />
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Dumped huh.<br />
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Never mind. Love and getting married is not everything. <br />
Focus on what i want first and live happily. The right man that can make me happy is not here yet, perhaps! and it is time for "me time" 💖!<br />
No stress.<br />
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NHM,<br />
Volunteer<br />
Self employed<br />
-for better future-<br />
<br />Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-89089860748662940482017-08-03T02:07:00.005-07:002017-08-30T09:08:32.880-07:00Self -Enhancement Alhamdulillah<br />
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Just one month ago, I posted that i am looking for job. Actually, during that time I am already working as Administrative Officer and actually, I was reluctant to be permanent worker. I was offered a manager post for an institution and i truly don't want it. But in the end, I accepted the offer, but as the assistant manager.<br />
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I really did take almost a month to think and I talked to my family about this matter. Yeah, people will always support you to take any job if they satisfied about the salary. But it is not my primary concern while pursuing my career.<br />
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We will put our effort to complete any task/job. Everyone does. But, spending our time for something that we don't like to do will surely affect our thinking, emotion and behavior. People also may be affected by us either in negative or positive way.<br />
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Now, i'm writing again as I just made a decision to stay, for another level of experience. Yes, i am willing to spend my time and learn to like it as much as i can. I will learn and try to instill the "self belonging" to this institution.<br />
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Just pray for me. Hope i will be strong and do my best to bring this organization to the higher level and excellent.<br />
Well this job really made me polish my skill in designing. hope, i will be pro in this field one day.<br />
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5.06PM<br />
August 3 2017<br />
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<br />Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-57781018211062311132017-07-01T04:47:00.003-07:002017-07-01T04:47:40.480-07:00BersawangAlmost one year I left my job as assistant supervisor and till now, i still looking for a good job that i passionate into it.<br />
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Volunteering really make me appreciate who i am and what i want to be. Now, working wit an NGO fulltime, polishing my designing skill, management and PR skill. Yet, i did not get enough satisfaction.<br />
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I need to purify my heart and do lot of muhasabah. I truly hate myself right now that sometimes do not really "bersyukur" with this opportunity and the rizq given to me. People are struggling but i am busy looking for something and put aside the thing the thing that are already in front of me.<br />
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Fabiayyi aalairobbikuma tukazzibaaan.<br />
<br />Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-45496731230535883762016-08-02T19:45:00.003-07:002016-08-05T08:16:51.772-07:00Need for Assistance?Hi guys, my name is Huda. Currently lives in Kota Bharu Kelantan. Doing Freelance job.<br />
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If you come to Malaysia for study with not very good english, and you found yourself in trouble doing your assignments, and you are hardly feel uncomfortable to ask you groupmates, give me an email and i will help you at a very low cost. :)<br />
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Email me at hde_dianza9@yahoo.com. or kindly pm me on fb. (Refer my fb link on your right side).<br />
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If you need for translation, i will also help you.<br />
I also providing few other services like transportation service (kinda like UBER)<br />
and i can also be your tourist guide. But of course, there are some terms n conditions.<br />
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(First thing first, you must atleast know how to speak n write in english. Or else how i can communicate with u guys)<br />
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However, everything can be negotiate. <br />
Only serious customer will be given my phone number. Leave me a message or kindly pm me for any question.<br />
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With love,<br />
HudaNurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-2200045843922158872016-04-21T16:22:00.002-07:002016-04-21T16:23:29.382-07:00Realiti yg harus dijiwai sendirianRealiti,<br />
Kesusahan itu mendidik jiwa<br />
Merasai sakitnya susah dan bersusah payah demi menggapai cita.<br />
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Realiti,<br />
Disebalik kesenangan pasti akan ada ujian. Ada yg sesuatu yg kita tidak sukai yg akan menyucikan kita. Yg ingin kita sentiasa sedar akan realiti 'jika ada kelebihan,tanggungjawab kita adalah memberi'.<br />
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Realiti,<br />
Awlawiyyat pasti akan menguji diri.<br />
Awlawiyyat yg banyak menguji kebijaksanaan dan jua kemanusiaan. Awlawiyyat yg akan menyedarkan kita dari alam fantasi yg tersekat di minda separuh sedar.<br />
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Realiti,<br />
Menguji persepsi sebagai dai.<br />
Persepsi mad'u tidak begitu penting kerana dai terasa dirinya sangat bagus.<br />
<br />
Realiti itu harus dijiwai.<br />
Agar diri tidak alpa dan dinodai .<br />
Agar sentiasa bugar dalam menjalankan tugas sebagai khalifah.<br />
Realiti itu akan terus berdamping.<br />
Kerana kita hidup bukan di alam fantasi seperti Aladdin mahupun Doraemon.<br />
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Qiamullail. Mathurat. AlQuran.<br />
Solat Sunat.<br />
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Realitinya makin bertambah atau berkurang?<br />
Realitinya hanya kita yg ketahui.<br />
Relitinya Kiamat dan mati kita semakin dekat.<br />
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Sollu 'ala nnabi. SawNurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-103643272504317942016-01-14T08:04:00.001-08:002016-04-22T09:14:35.596-07:00Dear parents and friends out there...Kids nowadays learn from parents and friends. Informally, they watch and immitate you behavior.<br />
If since young, you showed them bad example, how can you expect they will grow and become very excellence in everything?<br />
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My dear so called parents out there, Islam is simple. But why you are taking easy of it?<br />
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Aurah is very simple example.<br />
Covering aurah is an obligation. Cover it from non Mahram. Understand it properly. It doesnt meant cover your aurah when you want to go outside your house or going somewhere.<br />
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What it means is, cover your aurah wherever u r if there is non Mahram who can see you. Including in your house. Change your mentality now if you understand this message.<br />
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Halal and Haram is not only related to pork and alcohol. In short, it is not only related to you food consumption, but every single thing.<br />
Everything you eat will give impact on your body and soul. It does influence your behavior. It does affect your mental processes. So, please take care of it from the very beggining.<br />
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Control, educate, dicipline your children and give motivation from early childhood to ensure they are growing well.<br />
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With love,<br />
HudaNurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-11544244655006551972016-01-12T07:42:00.004-08:002016-01-12T07:42:35.315-08:00Life and workFresh grads need some experiences to enter a reputable company.<br />
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Just imagine, nowadays world, people are being paid based on their quality of work and experiences. The more you know ur field, the higher ur salary/ comission u will get.<br />
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How about education?<br />
In private sector, sometimes it will be meaningless.<br />
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Actually, it also depend on the employer. Some might be racist. No doubt. Regardless where ever you are, u might encounter this type of people.<br />
So, here is the point that i would like to discuss.<br />
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If people really2 being paid based on their experiences and not based on level of education , what the society should do? Stop futhering studies?<br />
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Education does play very o<br />
Important roles. Without knowledges, skills and some theories that u might acquired from the university, u might not be able to lead and become visionary leader. U also might be manipulated or more worse, u might be just a tool.<br />
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Learns and know ur rights, how to survive and how to benefit other. Improve n try to improve others. Education will enlighten you.<br />
Do not let money control you.<br />
Make control of the money.<br />
<br />Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-85064140770062611712015-10-20T10:13:00.000-07:002015-10-20T10:13:02.001-07:00Married?Mati itu Rahsia Allah.<br />
Kita tidak tahu bila.<br />
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Jodoh pun rahsia Allah.<br />
Sunnah Rasulullah pula mengumumkan perkahwinan.<br />
So, if someone x hebahkan tu, maknanya masanya belum tiba kan?<br />
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Unless, you ada calon untuk diperkenalkan, so tanyalah empunya diri akan statusnya.<br />
Bukan apa, this is quite sensitive lorh.<br />
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Apa pun, jangan terlalu excited tanya bila org lain nk kahwin k.<br />
Sekian.Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-7865467188448411002015-06-29T09:51:00.002-07:002017-09-20T06:37:40.625-07:00I have startedSince i graduated, there was a lot of thing or so called "wishlist" i managed to accomplished.<br />
1. Opened a boutique.<br />
2. Expert in driving manual car<br />
3.Travel alone (where i went to Vietnam)<br />
4. Work and taking care of My mum.<br />
And there was one thing out of my wishlist that still made me doubt is beli kereta terlalu awal. Haha.<br />
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Kahwin??<br />
Seriusly,nk sgt. But, bila fikirkan kerjaya dan sape nk jaga mek, aku rasa aku belum bersedia. <br />
Calon, o, i didn't have any yet. I have rejected so many. It is ain't easy to find my Mr. Right.<br />
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My aim for this year ahead is to pay my(not truly mine)q debt (hutang kurang kebijaksanaa. I called) and Umrah.<br />
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I just want to wish happy Ramadhan yo all of u. Take care.Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-56271837540459638252015-03-05T09:23:00.002-08:002015-03-05T09:23:41.131-08:00Graduated6 March 2015.<br />
A month ago, i'm graduated from Uia.<br />
Majoring in Psychology, minoring in Islamic Revealed Knowledge. Currently, I am 25 years old.<br />
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Think about career, think about family.<br />
If i choose to start a career and make it as my first priority, then most probably i would stay in KL or Penang. I was thought abt this very serious. With salary around 2.5k, i think it is a good starting for a fresh graduate like me.<br />
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But, I only have a mother. Her condition was not so good.<br />
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Hey ladies, who can take care of your mother at the best if not you, her daughter.<br />
My empathy is very high. I couldn't stand seeing old women working so hard. But, i never come back to take care of my mum out of sympathy and empathy. I doing it for my responsibility. For the sake of Allah. As a single mother, i know how hard her life was. Its about 34 years, she did many things to support this family. Before my father's died, he was unable to work about 10 years. My mum was the one who went out, and work.<br />
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This is one of the reason why my sisters and i think we need to be independent and have own career.<br />
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Now, is the time for me to take care of my mum. Though i am yet unemployed, i am happy coz i can serve my mum at my best. No worries. Less crying compared to the time when i was in UIA. Pamtang sahabat2 tnya pasal mek, aku pasti akn menitis air mata. Moreover if my mum doesnt pick up my calls. Yes, she won't answer because she had asthma. Now, i can see her all the time. Know what she is doing in the midnight, can help her to stand up, boil water for bath, cook, massage, taking care of the house and help her to take care of her garden.<br />
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I am working, ke' chi?<br />
At least, i can help my siblings as well. Lessening their worrisome towards my mum's condition. Working in another state is ain't easy for them as well. Yeah, no worry abt money because they supporting us more or less.<br />
Family is very important.<br />
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Kalau sakit, mereka la yg menjaga. Kalau susah, merelah yg membantu,.<br />
Kalau senang, mereka jualah gg berkongsi rasa dan gembira.<br />
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Kami diajar berkongsi dan saling membantu.<br />
Sebab itu kami benci org yg kedekut. Kami benci org yg tak teliti dan sambil lewa. Kami x suka org yg pemalas terlebih. Kami x suka org g yg talam dua muka. Org yg pentingkan diri sendiri. Kami x suka org yg layan org lain yg mengada ngada berlebih lebihan kerana status dan pangkat. Org berbudi, kita berbahasa.<br />
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Org yg memberi tuba, kita buang sahaja. X guna menghabiskn masa utk org seumpama itu.<br />
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Selagi org itu hormat ibu, aku akn hormat mereka. Itu aku semat di dada.<br />
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#berkhidmart selagi punya waktu.<br />
Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-55148156978318595052014-11-28T01:48:00.001-08:002014-11-28T02:02:08.809-08:00IIUM UniquenessSalam Jumuah Mubarakah :)<br />
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This week, 24/11-29/11 2014, IIUM Campus Gombak was very happening with various festival. There are many programs was conducted during this week such as MAFEST (Mahallah Ali Festival), GUF (Global Ummatic Week Festival), Psychology Day, Salahuddin fest pun ada. Last but not leat we have Dakwah Carnival by Ma'aruf Club. All of them are very informative and interesting. They are unique.<br />
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GUF- Booth based on culture and country<br />
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Abas (my Intro to Usul Fiqh classmate, me, Della (my roomate) and our beloved Dr Habeebullah (Lecturer Intro to Usul Fiqh)<br />
i am wearing princess/ wedding dress here. haha.<br />
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Below are some picture from the History of Psychology Class. a presentation on Freud Psychoanalysis Theory.<br />
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We are Muslim and we unite for Islam. Our culture make us different and Unique, but it does not separate us. Here, we promote the Muslim brotherhood through Global Ummatic Fest.<br />
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Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-65378587851239582972014-09-28T01:08:00.001-07:002014-09-28T01:08:51.516-07:00Philosophy and Civilization<div class="MsoNormal">
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Days ago, in the History of philosophical Psychology class,
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It was very good moment for us to ponder what is around us.
Really think about who we are. Where are
we standing? How we really think. How we
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Studying the western philosophy as well as Muslim
philosophy, does it make us combine both (type of knowledge) and become better person?<o:p></o:p></div>
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It made us really did some reflection. We are the Muslim
psychology students from IIUM, who learnt about revealed knowledge, who learn
about science. When we discuss something, do we really take religion into
account? or just simply put some Quranic verses and hadith to support or against a theory.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Do we provided some views or criticism upon subject, ideas or mechanism from the past scientists?</div>
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Muslim Daie and psychologist share the same goals anyway. To
change human behavior and mental processes toward something better. Interesting
right? In Islam, we talk about Iman, Islam and Ihsan and in Psychology, we talk
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What is the goal of psychology anyway ?<o:p></o:p></div>
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We are born to make different. Rasulullah SAW had been sent to complete the excellence virtues. To guide man know why they are living in this world, modify what is not right and create a peaceful world to live in.</div>
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Islam, is a religion that gives rahmat to all (Rahmatan Lil'alamin).</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">this is the third fountain since i have been in IIUM for 4 years.<br />student need new projector, new chairs in exam hall, need a new computer in class room. we didn't this new fountain that representing Malay, Islam and civilization. :)<br />enough with The Garden of Knowledge and Virtue.</td></tr>
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That is <i>fitrah</i>,<o:p></o:p></div>
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Think about love, think about future, and think about
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To be a good vicegerent, what would that mean?<o:p></o:p></div>
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You as man, as a son, a friend, as worker, as a daie, <o:p></o:p></div>
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And as a husband perhaps one day.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Had you fulfill your task as His ‘abd?<o:p></o:p></div>
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As His slave, what you have done? <o:p></o:p></div>
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Your mouth always happily singing songs about love, about
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Have you wonder, how long you have not talk about Him?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Praising Him, Remembering Him, would you?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Hey, when I said you, it is not only mean you,<br />
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<o:p> Where there is a great love, there are always a great Miracle.</o:p></div>
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Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-14744371898977111062014-05-17T01:45:00.001-07:002014-05-17T01:45:24.028-07:00Dia<br />
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Kepuasan mendalam jelas terpancar saat saksi mengesahkan.</div>
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Simbolik ikatan janji cinta dua manusia.</div>
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</span>Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-39620689077598633922014-05-11T23:18:00.001-07:002014-05-11T23:18:50.904-07:00Wrestling with addiction?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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There is a story. A very smart girl that had been rape by her boyfriend. She was a smart girl that always got good CGPA. However, since that day, she changed. As her friends, we know that she is traumatized. Lots of methods had been taken to help her. But, she never listened and keep dating with that boy.</div>
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px; text-align: start;">The Prophet (peace be upon him) had reported, "Whenever a man is alone with a woman, Satan </span><i style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px; text-align: start;">(Shaytan)</i><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px; text-align: start;">is the third among them" (Tirmidhi). When young people are getting to know each other, being alone together is a temptation toward wrongdoing.</span></div>
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O my friend, you may forgot this, but i would to keep telling you, this is test from Allah. what is wrong, still wrong. You know it, so must be strong to say no to it. please remember, t<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">here are clear verses in the Quran against the natural results of dating; from the seemingly innocent kiss to the more obvious. According to the Qur'anic commands unmarried men and women should maintain their chastity until marriage. You must remember, </span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">Hadrat Umar (RA) also reported that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Not one of you should meet a woman alone unless she is accompanied by a relative </span><i style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">(mahram)</i><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">" (Bukhari/Muslim). Why you keep going?</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="line-height: 24px;">I am addicted to Sexual Intercours!</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">We are truly clueless.We help you. You went to counselling sessions. Yet, you still dating with him. He is obviously does not want to marry you my dear.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">I have aborted a baby!</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">Allah, please help us.. Show us the way to help her. O Allah, help us. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">Psychiatrist and Psychologist.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">Yes, we will refer to them. O Allah, please help us to find the way to help our friend. Please help and guide her ya Allah. We will not leave her as far as there is several ways that may be taken to help her.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">Brothers and sister, please be extra careful. remember what Allah had command us. whenever we are dealing with opposite genders, a</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">t all times, Muslims should follow the commands of the Qur'an (24:30-31) to </span><b style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"><i>"lower their gaze and guard their modesty...."</i></b><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="line-height: 24px;"> Islam recognizes that we are human and are given to human weakness, so this rule provides safeguards for our own sake. To prevent us from many others diseases.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Such friendship often leads to Haram. In the Qur’an, Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala mentioned that good men and women are those who marry, do not have fornicating relationships and do not have “paramours” (“akhdan” see al-Nisa’ 4:25; al-Ma’idah 5:5). “Akhdan” are “sweethearts” or for a man a “mistress” and for a woman a “lover”. The Prophet - peace be upon him - said, whenever two strangers of the opposite gender are alone with each other, Satan becomes the third one between them. (al-Tirmidhi, 1091). <b>(1)</b></span></div>
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It will change from one phase to another. Life getting better and better, and some may just increasing in term of responsibilities and commitment. Some may not coping well with their life, work, and relationship. Suicide rate in Malaysian are on rise by year. This also worried some. Muslim also contributed to this rate, but the number still the least compared to Chinese and Indian. however, this only up to the reported cases received by hospital and NSRM. It is known by Health Minister, family usually will not report the suicidal behavior or cases it as is shameful.<br />
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problem in intimate relationship also cause many Chinese committed suicide. Having marital problem, child problem, this is common. Hopefully, with the decreasing number of illiteracy, Malaysian life would be much much more better.<br />
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Takut untuk bertukar status. takut tuk memberi komitmen. doakan saya moga next phase will be better than today :) ^_^<br />
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you make me fell different.<br />
<img src="http://cl.jroo.me/z3/8/l/d/e/a.baa-Give-me-your-hand.jpg" /> tell me if u need me.. i'll try to be there. If i can't , Allah will always be with u. He never leave u alone.Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5007155457889828286.post-28798157807278389962014-02-08T19:48:00.000-08:002014-02-08T19:48:04.416-08:00Back to the real pointBack to the point <3 p=""><br />
Bila sudah terlalu lama berbicara tentang sesuatu yg kita tidak mahu, tapi perlu, maka rehatkan diri sebentar, mencari titik point yg stabil. Bagi sesetengah orang, ianya seakan tindakan tidak bijak yg menghilangkan rentak, namun disebaliknya tersembunyi suatu rahsia, yg mengandungi identiti diri.<br />
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Identiti memang boleh berubah, namun bukanlah berubah 360 darjah. Tipulah bila kita kata kita ingin berubah, maka kita berubah secara total. Kenapa? Kerana personaliti tidak dibentuk dalam masa yg singkat. Malahan, sifat kita yg ditanam dalam diri itu tidak mungkin padam dlm masa yg singkat.<br />
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Hati yg berbolak balik, keadaan sekeliling, nature and nuture, people around us, adalah pihak dan perkara yg akan mempengaruhi diri kita.<br />
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Namun faktor dalaman kita juga adalah strong factor yg lead kepada action kita. Pelakunya kita, pelakonnya kita, dan kita juga yg menerima akibatnya.<br />
Siapa kita , apa kita mahu, inilah diri kita.<br />
Samarkah identiti kita?<br />
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Ibubapa kita mencorakkan kita utk menjadi insan yg terbilang. Menjadi anak yg soleh dan mampu ditumpang. Menjadi Insan yg boleh diharapkan. Mempunyai akhlaq yg mulia. Jikalau identiti diri seperti ini terhakis meranalah mereka. dan meranalah kita dihadapan Allah Yg Maha Esa .<br />
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Jadilah Insan yg terbaik, yg mampu menjadi hiasan tercantik di syurga nanti.<img alt="elysium.stars" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-859135" height="425" src="http://tctechcrunch2011.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/elysium-stars.png?w=600&h=425" width="600" /></3>Nurul huda Mamathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09638364693285290157noreply@blogger.com0