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~_^ B.e.t.t.e.r.m.e.n.t ~_^

what make people become more better and better? What make them be the Best?What make them inspired by others?
What make them Success?

31 May 2014

When you have nothing to say!


When you have nothing to say,
You will start to find something,
Just anything,
That is fitrah,
And when people talk about something,
You might fit in,
Think about love, think about future, and think about someone to be.
 
Allah had gave you a command
To be a good vicegerent, what would that mean?
You as man, as a son, a friend, as worker, as a daie,
And as a husband perhaps one day.
Before think about all those thing,
Had you fulfill your task as His ‘abd?
As His slave, what you have done?

Your mouth always happily singing songs about love, about girls that you feel in love
Have you wonder, how long you have not talk about Him?
Praising Him, Remembering Him, would you?
Hey, when I said you, it is not only mean you,
But WE!


Nurul Huda Mamat.
1 June 2014.



 Where there is a great love, there are always a great Miracle.
As you believe in Allah, The Most Greatest. And The Most Merciful.

17 May 2014

Dia


Semakin hampir seseorang itu dengan tarikh pernikahannya, semakin kuat ingatannya terhadap pasangannya.
Sebulan...
Seminggu...
Sehari...
Debaran semakin terasa saat akad ingin dilafazkan.
Kepuasan mendalam jelas terpancar saat saksi mengesahkan.
Simbolik ikatan janji cinta dua manusia.

Namun...
Seorang hamba...
Lima kali sehari bersua dengan tuhannya...
Hidup pula atas ihsan semata...
Tidak mampu merasai perasaan yang sama.
Bahkan saat berjumpa tiada apa yang dirasa...
Walaupun janji telah termetrai buat sekian lama.
Yang lupa semakin lupa...
Yang beragama mula terleka...

Dugaan akhirat yang tidak terlihat di depan mata.

11 May 2014

Wrestling with addiction?


There are people out there are struggling with their life. They are fighting with many thing that blocking them to achieve something and gain happiness. 

There is a story. A very smart girl that had been rape by her boyfriend. She was a smart girl that always got good CGPA. However, since that day, she changed. As her friends, we know that she is traumatized. Lots of methods had been taken to help her. But, she never listened and keep dating with that boy.

The Prophet (peace be upon him)  had reported, "Whenever a man is alone with a woman, Satan (Shaytan)is the third among them" (Tirmidhi).  When young people are getting to know each other, being alone together is a temptation toward wrongdoing.

O my friend, you may forgot this, but i would to keep telling you, this is test from Allah. what is wrong, still wrong. You know it,   so must be strong to say no to it. please remember, there are clear verses in the Quran against the natural results of dating; from the seemingly innocent kiss to the more obvious. According to the Qur'anic commands unmarried men and women should maintain their chastity until marriage. You must remember, Hadrat Umar (RA) also reported that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Not one of you should meet a woman alone unless she is accompanied by a relative (mahram)" (Bukhari/Muslim). Why you keep going?

I am addicted to Sexual Intercours!

We are truly clueless.We help you. You went to counselling sessions. Yet, you still dating with him. He is obviously does not want to marry you my dear.

I have aborted a baby!

Allah, please help us.. Show us the way to help her. O Allah, help us. 

.......
Psychiatrist and Psychologist.
Yes, we will refer to them. O Allah, please help us to find the way to help our friend. Please help and guide her ya Allah. We will not leave her as far as there is several ways that may be taken to help her.

Brothers and sister, please be extra careful. remember what Allah had command us. whenever we are dealing with opposite genders, at all times, Muslims should follow the commands of the Qur'an (24:30-31) to "lower their gaze and guard their modesty...."  Islam recognizes that we are human and are given to human weakness, so this rule provides safeguards for our own sake. To prevent us from many others diseases.

Here are GUIDELINES for Muslim in social life.

Friendship with Opposite Sex

Is it wrong for two people of the opposite sex to be very good friends at school and outside of school? Dr. Muzammil Siddiqui answers " Muslims should have good relations with all people, males as well as females. At school, at work, in you neighborhood etc. you should be kind and courteous to everyone. However, it is not allowed in Islam to take a non-Mahram person or persons of the opposite gender as a very close friend. 
Such friendship often leads to Haram. In the Qur’an, Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala mentioned that good men and women are those who marry, do not have fornicating relationships and do not have “paramours” (“akhdan” see al-Nisa’ 4:25; al-Ma’idah 5:5). “Akhdan” are “sweethearts” or for a man a “mistress” and for a woman a “lover”. The Prophet - peace be upon him - said, whenever two strangers of the opposite gender are alone with each other, Satan becomes the third one between them. (al-Tirmidhi, 1091).  (1)

MORE INFORMATION for HALAL DATING, you guys may refer to this websites
http://www.irfi.org/articles/articles_51_100/halal_dating.htm